Begin first by not setting unreasonable expectations for yourself. It is far better to give yourself fewer tasks, accomplish them and feel that
success and the sense of "being on top of it"....than giving yourself too many tasks and not fully accomplishing any one of them. This just
leaves you feeling inadequate and as if you are dragging behind, not a loving feeling to experience.
Here are 5 ways to set up a mindset of success, happiness, and contentment.
1) Morning Rituals; never underestimate the power of setting your day up right from the beginning. As painful as it can be to drag yourself out
of bed early in the morning, the benefits will very soon far out-weigh the struggle. There is a peace first thing in the morning that will not
exist any other time of the day, draw from it. Set your alarm even just 15 minutes earlier than you typically would. Using a stimulant such as
inhaling peppermint and orange essential oils will bring a feeling of being awake as well as bring on the happy feelings. Take these 15 minutes to do something routine such as a meditation, a short yoga asana sequence, a extra long shower.
2) Journaling;
journaling your thoughts, desires, accomplishments, goals, things you need to release is a beautiful balance of letting go and bringing in. Be free, be creative, just write. It doesn't even need to make sense. Putting words to paper removes the holding onto what no longer serves you, as well as the craving for desires not yet received.
3) Creative Visualization; go ahead and daydream throughout your day. Do this often, without judgement. These thoughts are yours and only yours, think of whatever sets your soul on fire, and don't forget to savour how you feel when you create these adventures, these accomplishments, these wonderful things in your mind.
4) Meditation; even a simple breath in and breath out is a meditation. If you can find 3 minutes in your day to scroll through Facebook, you can find 3 minutes to close your eyes and do nothing but breathe in and breathe out. Take refuge, take it daily. This simple task will begin to re- wire your brain, your neuron network to establish greater resilience and a sense of peace.
5) Gratitude; bringing along gratitude throughout your day really will be your best friend. With gratitude there is no need for striving. When you are able to focus on what you already have, that energy will draw in like energy....more of it. If you are striving to accomplish something, stop working so hard, stop striving. There is a lot of struggle energy with this. Simply think about how great it feels to have the things you already have. To have accomplished the things you already have. They don't need to be the same as what it is you desire, it is simply the energy of having what you need that will bring more of that in.